My Journey of Life Review and Renewal
There I was at 62, standing at the crossroads of life. My third marriage was ending and my daughter and I were estranged. I had recently lost my mother and sister, their passings still fresh waves of grief. I felt empty, adrift, alone. Unsure how to reinvent myself so late in life. Convincing myself the best years were behind me.
During my 14-year marriage, I had left a position as a college Dean to raise my daughter and support my husband’s business. Now an empty-nester and on my own, I struggled to envision what new career I could possibly start. The future felt like a vast, bleak expanse. Who was I now? Where was I heading? Lingering questions without answers.
Then, I stumbled upon a book that contained a simple but probing question: How has your life been a good teacher and friend? I had never kept a journal, yet I felt compelled to write. I found a spiral notebook, pen in hand, staring at the blank first page.
I began pouring out memories and milestones, heartbreaks and triumphs. Exploring defining moments that had imprinted themselves on my soul. Each time I wrote, I unpacked my life with newfound curiosity.
As I wrote, I also began developing a framework to make sense of my life. This framework gave me perspective and helped me feel more empowered, both as I reflected and as I lived.
Gradually, glimmers of insight emerged. I started seeing my experiences through a lens of growth and gratitude. Instead of replaying old limiting stories, I unearthed hidden strengths and talents. I realized difficult times had cultivated my gifts for empathy, listening deeply, inspiring others.
As I rediscovered these natural abilities, my sense of purpose reignited. I felt called to guide other women on this healing passage, to share the framework I had created and share how reframing our life stories can renew our excitement for the future.